If you can’t shower within 1-2 hours of the scene, plan to shower here. Wash your asshole and balls and brush your teeth. I have basic hygiene supplies available.

Scenes can be physically intense. Make sure to have eaten something nutritious/filling and be hydrated. Showing up not having eaten all day is a great way to pass out. Eat as if you’re about to run a 5k.

I have a cat, who is very charming and friendly, and a dog, who stays sequestered during scenes. If you are allergic to cats or dogs, I am happy to meet at an AirBnB, dungeon space, or hotel (at your expense).

I expect you to arrive discreetly. Do not wear kinkwear on the street. Any toys or equipment you bring must be discreet. 

I love it when subs bring lots of toys for me to choose from. Feel free to bring your toy bag. Make sure toys are clean and charged.

I will send you driving or public transit directions day of. 

There is street parking. You may need to circle the block. Don’t leave valuables in your car.

First in-person scenes have increased security measures. Any of these measures may be taken at any time, but will definitely happen during the first scene.

• I will search your bag and other belongings when you arrive. Weapons of any kind are not allowed in my play space. Any medications must be in their original container.

• I always have multiple people expecting check-ins from me at specific times. If I do not check in they will come check on me. 

• Bring a photo ID.

• I have additional safety measures that I will not disclose beforehand.

• I may ask you to take a rapid COVID-19 test before the scene.

I encourage you to arrive up to 10 minutes early. You will not be let in more than 15 minutes early.

If you are late, we will still end at our scheduled end time.

Expect 10-15 minutes of negotiation at the beginning of your appointment time.

• Please know any types of play that are off the table that day, any moods/feelings/specific types of play you want to include, and other goals for the scene.

• Please disclose any physical illnesses, disabilities, or other information I may need to know for safe play.

• You can send this information in advance by email, but we’ll still take a few minutes to check in.

Aftercare may start up to 15 minutes before the end of the scheduled end time and may extend slightly after the end of the appointment time if needed. Bringing an aftercare kit (your fave snacks, soft clothes/blanket/stuffed animal, a calming playlist, comfort objects, etc) is encouraged. 

• Physically intense scenes may affect your ability to drive safely after play.

• More information on my aftercare considerations page.

Do not enter closed doors. No snooping through closets or cabinets. Be respectful.

If I suspect that you are intoxicated when you arrive I will end the scene without a refund.

Intoxicants are not allowed in my play space.

Any attempt to touch me without my explicit permission or to initiate some kind of unnegotiated play without asking will end the scene immediately without a refund.

Rescheduling or canceling a scene less than 24 hours before our appointment comes with a 25% reschedule fee and loss of your deposit.

Rescheduling is free (and required) if you have COVID-19 symptoms or exposure and free in other emergencies (such as medical emergencies, family deaths, etc), with proof of emergency. You will still lose your deposit.

Scenes of 3 or more hours will include a break for a snack or meal. Scenes of 6 or more hours will include 2 such breaks. Overnights will include 7-8 hours of sleep.