In person play rates plus date expenses.

• 2 hour minimum for a date with light kink play (meet at date location, no time at my play space).

• 3 hour minimum for a date and a scene (this is recommended, we have a lot more options for public play if we have private play time before and/or after).

• I will occasionally do 1 hour social dates without kink play for regular clients, but this limits our date options.

You’ll pay for all date related expenses. I expect you to tip working people at least 20-25%.

I expect you to hold doors, take my coat, pull out my chair for me, and generally treat me like the Goddexx I am.

We’ll negotiate any play or power exchange beforehand. Stepping in to any unnegotiated play during the date will end the date immediately without refund.

• All public play must be fully innocuous to casual observers and should not inconvenience working people.

• My favorite types of public play include:

  • Protocol play such as mandatory thanking, eye contact limitations, speech limitations, and other restrictions on behavior

  • Fetish-wear or toys under street clothes

  • Finding private places (single stall bathrooms) for quick discreet play

  • If you’d like to do slightly more explicit play, kink friendly events/clubs/bars are good date options.

I appreciate casual as well as luxurious dates. I love a prix fixe menu and a night at the theater just as well as getting ice cream and taking a walk in a public park. Date experiences do not need to break the bank to please me.

In addition to dinner dates, I also love going to plays or concerts, shopping, art galleries, museums, botanical gardens, movies, activity dates, parks, and gardens, etc.

• Due to my chronic pain, I may need to sit often during dates that include walking such as museums and gardens. I expect you to be attentive to my physical needs and center my pleasure.

• Shopping dates have a $200/hr spending allowance. I will select the stores and items.

I am a vegan and I do not drink alcohol. I don’t eat peanuts. If you are suggesting a restaurant I expect you to review the menu to make sure they have vegan options and dry beverages before suggesting it to me for approval. Good restaurants for dates in the Twin Cities include:

• Alma

• W.A. Frost (ask for a downstairs table in one of the niches)

• Khaluna

• Owamni

• French Meadow

• Hai Hai

• Hola Arepa

• Moto-i

• Zen Box Izakaya

• Reverie

• J. Selby's

• Trio

• Modern Times

Subs are limited to 1 alcoholic beverage per date.

If I decline to answer a question about my personal life, I expect respect. I keep parts of my private life separate from my working life. 

As always, if you want to charm me, bring me flowers and/or treats (vegan chocolate, candied ginger, dark chocolate dipped candied orange peel, exotic fruit, vegan pastries).

I won’t kiss a sub on the lips until you’ve taken me on a date. I’m a very good kisser.